15 Low-Effort Ways to Be a Better Friend

Friendship is built through ordinary moments of attention, not only through grand gestures. These 15 ideas take about a minute or less.

  1. Send a spontaneous “thinking of you” text.
  2. Forward something that reminded you of them.
  3. Celebrate a small or unexpected win.
  4. Check in without demanding an update.
  5. Send encouragement before a big day.
  6. Remember and ask about a small detail they shared.
  7. Support something they care about.
  8. Thank them for something they did a long time ago.
  9. Remind them of a strength they may be overlooking.
  10. Validate their feelings before offering advice.
  11. Send humor on a heavy day.
  12. Ask how they are really doing, then make room for the answer.
  13. Apologize quickly when you get something wrong.
  14. Say that you are proud of them out loud.
  15. Send a compliment just because.

Friendship is built in small moments, not grand performances.

Make today one of those moments.

With kindness,
The Complimenting Club team